On preparation: ‘I don’t want to come until I’m ready to go.’ On moderation: ‘It feels greedy. It’s like we’re the fat people of happiness.’ On change: ‘If we want things to stay the way they are, then we have to change.’ On honesty: ‘Don’t play me.’ On repetition: ‘We keep doing the same thing because we think we can break the world to fit us.’ On existence: ‘Let’s enjoy being here until we are here no longer.’ On aid work: ‘I built a shiny new hut where the old hut was but